Posts Tagged ‘Christianity’

Christianity at its worse. Christianity at its best.

Friday, April 26th, 2013

This photo so clearly shows Christianity at its worse … a burnt KKK cross … and Christianity at its best … MLK gently removing it.

 

As Christians, we need to be aware of both legacies.  The Cross burning legacy knows a long history … the Inquisition, Slavery, Segregation, Apartheid, Westboro Baptist and “God hates fags.” It is ugly, judgmental, self righteous, violent, argumentative.  Its danger stems largely from  the religious language it employs as a patina to cover over ego, an ego more concerned with rightness than with compassion, with rules more than grace.  It burns crosses in yards in Jesus’ name …..

That is why I think it so necessary that Christ embodied God’s life … that Christ was the very incarnation of It.  One cannot looks at the actions of Christ and see Him ever burning anything, ever proclaiming “God hates ….”, ever targeting an outlier group.   The group clearly most likely to feel His upset and disappointment were actually not the outliers but those comfortably in positions of powers.  Those who saw themselves as guardians of righteousness were quickly and disruptively called to question that very paradigm.

Blind Pharisee! First clean the inside of the cup and dish, and then the outside also will be clean. (Matt. 23)

Maybe it is time for us to pull, figuratively, a few burning crosses out of yards, not to fashion them in turn into our own swords, but as a way to stand witness to Christianity as God intended.

Standing Together

Wednesday, April 17th, 2013

There is a great and powerful need to learn how to pastor differently.

Imagine these words …  that holiness dwells more so in what we don’t know than in what we do know.  Or as Emanuel Swedenborg phrased it, “Holiness makes its home in ignorance that is innocent … holiness can only dwell in ignorance. (Secrets of Heaven 1557).

That is not speaking to the old business of pastoring, a business centered on a sealed “knowing.”  It is a new business of pastoring … a business of curiosity and questions and engagement and mutual discovery, comfortable with blessed unknowing.   Such business is not without a specialness to it.

There is a specialness, a specialness arguably more concerned with connection and care than with the heady mastery of unique and special knowledge.

A historian of religion once said that all religion begins by the making of a false distinction between the holy and the seemingly unholy. Soon a clerical caste, moral distinctions, purity codes, and temple systems emerge to keep these two worlds defined and apart, and to keep us separate from the unholy. This makes the ego feel safe and superior, so it usually works if you stay at the early level (of religion), where not much self-knowledge has yet been acquired. This becomes the very “business” of religion, and you can understand business here on several true levels: It keeps us busy, it keeps the customers coming back, and it is often a very subtle process of the “buying and selling” of God. It does give us clergy a good job, and most of us run to the occasion—because the crowds like it for some reason, and we get to feel important as “protectors of the sacred” (scriptures, rituals, and moralities). No one has told them any differently, for the most part—except Jesus.

And Christ spoke very differently!  He spoke away from special, caste-protected religion to a democratized faith of the people.  Such speech echoed the sacredness of the rich human lives with which it found itself entwined as a here-and-now, flesh-and-bones proposition.  Christianity’s roots far more hearkened to engagement with the world from the dangerous position of a living alternative than to a deadened ritual more concerned with escapism.

It would be easy to blame pastors for moving away from people towards a role as hyper-intellectual content experts.  But such a ministerial role is deeply comfortable for congregations. It demands little except passive listening.  It places faith at a safe distance with a specialized cadre of those expert enough to handle it…. no wars need be fought because there are trained soldiers to do that.   Many churches then get exactly what they want.

The truth remains … we are all here to learn.  We are all here to do.  Together.

 

Confusing Christianity with a Verdict

Friday, April 12th, 2013

Imagine being faced with sure knowledge that the child you carry will be born with a crippling birth defect.  What choice would you make?  Would you carry the child to term or not?

Such was the dilemma faced by a young couple who sought the counseling of Rev. Samuel Wells, dean of the Duke School of Divinity.   His points around this issue were profound.

The couple approached her parents for input.  One parent came down staunchly as “Abortion is Sin.”  The other’s “Pro Choice” orientation clearly meant that to keep the pregnancy was wrong.  Both parents were Christian.  Both saw Christianity as a “Verdict”, a body of knowledge to which one brought a given challenge which then in turn was judged.  The shallowness of this approach to Christianity-as-Verdict is distressing.

The distress, as Wells so ably pointed out, is that the verdict is rendered only as a point-in-time decision.  It says nothing to the couple in terms of the tortuous choices before them or of care for the couple and a new family after the birth.  Many see Christianity this way, as a point-in-time-phenomina vs. the life giving transformative path rendered originally as “The Way.”

New Church theology warns us away from a narrow, verdict centered approach.  As Emanuel Swedenborg noted, we move away from truer forms of deep love when we remove goodwill from the conversation and turn such decisions “into something merely moral.”  (True Christianity, 503)   This echoes Paul’s words in Romans 13, a passage that speaks to the ultimate law under which we are to function.

8 Let no debt remain outstanding, except the continuing debt to love one another, for whoever loves others has fulfilled the law. 9 The commandments, “You shall not commit adultery,” “You shall not murder,” “You shall not steal,” “You shall not covet,” and whatever other command there may be, are summed up in this one command: “Love your neighbor as yourself.” [fn2] 10 Love does no harm to a neighbor. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.

 

“Trendianity”

Friday, April 5th, 2013

Someone shared with me Justin Lee’s blog on “Trendianity.”  ”Trendianity” possesses real force, one to watch for in churches.  His clever words ….

… the heart of Trendianity is an obsession with the things most important to me. Trendianity says that my priorities are also God’s priorities. It says that the most pressing issues for the faith are the trending hot-button political and social issues of my own time and culture. If I disapprove of Elvis’s hips, then so does Trendianity. If I have a strong opinion about my country’s economic policy, Trendianity is there to back me up. And if, in fighting for my political beliefs, I talk down to people or treat them poorly, Trendianity makes me feel justified. After all, surely the Golden Rule isn’t meant to apply to situations where I’m fighting for the Really Important Stuff. Right?

The thing is, followers of Trendianity consider themselves Christians. They’d say they’re among Jesus’ most devout followers. And sometimes they are! Even those of us who actively criticize Trendianity don’t always avoid its seductive draw. We’re following Jesus faithfully when something shiny catches our gaze, and before we know it, we’ve gotten sidetracked following a false Christ who promises to save us from the People We Don’t Like Very Much. It may look like Jesus from a distance, but that’s not Jesus.

The Biblical Jesus was famously countercultural. He defied the sexism and racism of his day. He befriended the outcasts and ate with the sinners. When the religious leaders in his culture were focused on legalistic rules, he broke them. When his contemporaries were focusing on political controversies with Rome, he ignored them to feed and heal people. Jesus was not the Messiah his culture expected. The faith he demonstrated was one of overwhelming grace beyond all cultural boundaries.

By contrast, Trendianity is hopelessly tied to the culture. We laugh or cringe at the silly things its followers said and did in generations past, but we’re sure that no one will think that about us. No, Trendianity assures us, our issues really are the most important ones. We’ve finally gotten it right. God really is more concerned with passing this piece of legislation than with all that humility stuff. It says so in the Bible.

Well, maybe not in the Bible, but it was in a trendy religious magazine I read, and that’s almost as good.

 

Bold, Believable, and Disciplined

Thursday, March 28th, 2013

Organizations need to cast visions that are bold, believable and then execute forward movement with discipline.

What is bold and believable about a Christian vision?

The bold and believable does not lie in some trump card possessed by the few who profess.  It lies instead in the emancipation – that God created humanity to flourish.  To flourish … not suffer, or wine, or complain, or kill, or ache.  It is a flourishing that calls us into new ways of being, consistently whispering “There is more than THIS.”  Bold and believable!

That flourishing does not come from stuff.  It does not come from shrill prophesying and bullying from pulpits.  Flourishing does not come from moralizing that places God within small boxes of “do’s” and “don’ts” or knowing the “right” position on homosexuality or abortion.  Neither does flourishing grow from individual license to follow all compulsions regardless of the impact on others.   As Anne Lamott put it, You can safely assume that you’ve created God in your own image when it turns out that God hates all the same people you do.”

Forms of hatred, separation, division … oppose what flourishes … opposite a bold and believable vision.   Not much bold and believable about hate, religion-as-test, or sloppiness.  We flourish in a disciplined life navigated by love. Can we say, as this life ends, “I gave it a good squeeze?”

Pope Francis, Rob Bell and hope for New Church Christianity

Tuesday, March 19th, 2013

In the world of pastors, last week witnessed several fascinating events.

Pope Francis continued his obvious push as an advocate of lifestyle Christianity aligned to the needs to the poor.  Rob Bell, acclaimed author of “Love Wins”, in a well publicized interview preceding his most recent book, argued for Christianity to evolve largely along the same lines.  Fascinating. A Catholic.  An Evangelical.  Both calling for a radical reclaiming of a Christianity pulled back into its roots.   One could apply Richard Rohr’s words for the Pope to both actually …  ”this man is about lifestyle Christianity more than perpetual doctrinal food fights, which bear so little real fruit anyway.”

Listen to Rob Bell’s words as well. “I think we are witnessing the death of a particular subculture that doesn’t work. I think there is a very narrow, politically intertwined, culturally ghettoized, Evangelical subculture that was told “we’re gonna change the thing” and they haven’t. And they actually have turned away lots of people. And I think that when you’re in a part of a subculture that is dying, you make a lot more noise because it’s very painful. You sort of die or you adapt. And if you adapt, it means you have to come face to face with some of the ways we’ve talked about God, which don’t actually shape people into more loving, compassionate people. And we have supported policies and ways of viewing the world that are actually destructive. And we’ve done it in the name of God and we need to repent.”

Re-read those words as a Catholic.  I know and work and with many Catholics.  Don’t they ring true for Catholicism as well?  Re-read those words as member of the New Church.  I at least get a ringing in my ears!

What was immensely refreshing to me was hearing commentators note the consistent murmur from the disaffected that they would be willing to give Catholicism “one more try” if Pope Francis’ vision of simplicity, humility and generosity holds true.  I imagine many lapsed Protestants feel the same on hearing Bell’s words.

Hope.  This is a message of the universal Church, a Christianity spread over denominational lines, tied by hearts in the mystery that is Christ’s loving kindness lived into this world.

 

Others are worthy of a love that does not go away … ever.

Tuesday, February 26th, 2013

One author I recently heard talked of his upcoming book, “The Most Over-rated Generation.”  In that book, he talks of his generation and younger, raised on the perpetual sunshine of constant commentary around “how great you are.” The fruit of such loose and shallow sunshine … a generation of folks more interested in talking about change than actual change.  It is again the old bugaboo – Christianity far more interested in self esteem than self surrender, more focused on image than action.

What needs reclaimed is a tenacity that is able to love for the long term.  Such a love continues when those very acts of love have become boring and tedious, a love that in its perseverance overcomes fear.  As one non-profit leader noted, this becomes “long obedience in one direction” characterized by the uncommon willingness to stick with it, tenaciously.  Willing to say, “We do not go away … ever.”

That is hard to “sell” as a Church.  Who wants to be told THAT?  Well my guess is you do!

When Churches Fail. When Churches Succeed.

Tuesday, February 19th, 2013

Easy to believe churches fail when they move from the scripture.  Yet the bigger danger is when they move from love.  Failure then comes not from an adherence to scripted language but from a more deadly missional failure to love in the fierce way God calls us to love.

The dawn of a church starts with a deep commitment to loving God and others.  Beautiful to read of the original Christians where references to the other settled in the language of “sister” and “brother” – a familial gathering.   Such an approach sits within soft edges.  As New Church theology phrases it, a schism is not a schism then, a heresy not a heresy, but a place in which differences of opinion are lovingly held as “doctrines tailored to personal belief.”  (Heavenly Secrets 1834)  We do well to welcome those differences within the context of God, His Word, eternal life, and divine order.

As love fails, so does that ability to hear within that familial context, a context that allows for flexibility and individuality within the group, within the missional construct of agape [self sacrificing] love coming central to our lives and our communities.  We atrophy.  We stiffen and bristle,  We erect ever higher walls of literal correctness.  And love dies.  And so does scripture.

 

What does it mean to be “Born Again?”

Tuesday, February 5th, 2013

What does the term “Born Again” mean in the New Church?

First, it does not connote a particular denomination or political perspective. What it does connote is God’s Life being born anew in us, a Life that is actually ever-present.  We however get to decide the degree to which that Life manifests itself in this world.

“People who are born from the Lord, that is, who are reborn, receive the Lord’s life.  [That] life is Divine Love, or love for the whole human race, and the desire to save the whole human race and all its member’s forever.”  (Heavenly Secrets, #1803)

We then come to see faith differently, moving away from “Churchianity” to the wider embrace of “Christianity” -  ”a lifestyle—a way of being in the world that is simple, non-violent, shared, and loving.”

The Christian Mission in a Couple of Paragraphs

Monday, December 10th, 2012

My sister shared this blog post with me. Want to understand how radical the Christian message is?   Read this ….

Leviticus 13.45-46
Anyone with such a defiling disease must wear torn clothes, let their hair be unkempt, cover the lower part of their face and cry out, “Unclean! Unclean!” As long as they have the disease they remain unclean.

They must live alone; they must live outside the camp.

Matthew 8.2-3a
A man with leprosy came and knelt before him and said, “Lord, if you are willing, you can make me clean.”

And Jesus reached out his hand and touched him.