NewChurch Live

Spring is coming!  What a joy it is to start to see the first signs – from birds singing to snow drops blooming.  Seasons are such a blessing – each creating gratitude for what was and what is to come.

We moved through a difficult winter and are now ready for spring and summer.  “Lets Build A Church” is about getting ready.  As one author noted, it is the “work before the work.”  That “work before the work” is about readying ourselves in ways that are not always, in the short term, comfortable.  Can we seek to be the Christian message of a deeply loving God?  To see and experience that message in others?  Can we embrace, even sanctify the chaos of moving out of established patterns into the excitement of the unknown?  When I think of questions like this I both smile from great joy and smile even a bit out of nervous apprehension.

Moving forward is the very basis of life, life in its deepest, most giving form.  We possess a very clear vision for where we are headed.  Important to note however, that that mission is not a point on a map, a set destination.  It is clear vision about creating mechanisms that open us up individually and as a Church to ever great engagement in the world around us from the perspective of a deep love lived out in service to others.

You will hear about that mechanism over the coming weeks.  That new architecture builds on the incredible heart and work that launched NCL.

Stay tuned.  Spring is coming!

Interested in running a small group this spring?  You can do run a group online or in person.  We will help put it together and market it.  Email Angela and we will get it moving forward. (angela.cooper@newchurchlive.tv)

This question has come up numerous times.  Calling it a “new direction” actually leaves me a bit uncomfortable.  The fact is we are continuing in the same direction – no change.  Under the leadership of David Childs and this incredible team, the direction originally charted remains the same.  The forms will look different.   The heart is a loving community of people focused on creating a Monday morning church – a life for others without claiming cultural or spiritual superiority – a caring life informed by faith – eye level Christianity.   That is our base.  That is our DNA.

What will remain the same?

1. Sunday Service, 10:30 AM, Mitchell Performing Arts Center
2. Relevant Messages
3. Live Music
4. Video Support (Limited)
5. Online services (Limited)
6. KidsLIVE
7. Small Groups
8. Volunteer Opportunities (Increasing)

Important to note, we will ask for increased help from the congregation in making the above happen.  With a smaller team, we need a much larger team of volunteers.  The service will not have the finely polished look and feel it did.  And we will do our best to make Sundays great as a way to serve those in need.

So if someone complains about what is missing, hand them a “Partnership Agreement” and an invitation, “Well lets make it better!”

The vast majority of folks who find “faith” as it were come to it slowly – a long process of ebb and flow.  Others on occasion are gifted with a moment in time when it all “clicks”, when it all falls together.  I think of Bill Wilson of “12 Step”/ Alcoholics Anonymous Fame who experienced the “God of the preachers” in a room “infused with light” – a fascinating account given Bill’s rather staid, pragmatic view of faith.

As a Pastor, one sees it all – the slow steady building as well as the “moment.”  Both are fun.  Both are true. Both are transformative.  Both leave me excitedly curious about the wonder of God’s plan and His movement in this life.

It seems what we do is just keep “spreading the seed” as the parable reads.  That “spreading” both internal and external.  Maybe we witness both of the above forms of growth and different points and times in our lives as well as in different areas.  Regardless – what a blessing!

To all who shared your thoughts with us after the service:

The song from the Broadway play Wicked really speaks to the feeling we came away with from your service.  People come into our lives for a reason…..and we find that we have been changed for good.  Our daughters changed our lives for good in the most positive of ways.  They are the true pearls of our lives along with our sons who have supported them and our loving husbands.  After the service you shared your experiences of raising children with learning differences and some of you shared your personal experience as an adult who continues to work hard to overcome reading and writing challenges. Your stories touched us.

As we write this message to all of you, we are on our way to present at the International Dyslexia Association Conference  in Phoenix (IDA).  It is our mission at AIM~Academy In Manayunk in Philadelphia to share with other teachers, parents, and professionals all that we have learned along the path of our journey with our daughters, Colleen and Morgan.  Our staff will be sharing best practices in reading and writing while also sharing the unique partnership that AIM shares with Saint Joseph’s University called the Teacher Scholar program where recent graduates complete a year-long teacher residency program at AIM while learning the latest research-best practices and assessments in learning disabilities.  The conference will reach out to over 1500 professionals.

We want to share the next leg of our journey and ask you to join us in conversation as to how we can make a greater difference in our region.  Those of you who heard our story on Sunday know that we started in a little school building in Philadelphia with just 24 children.  Today, we have 145 students with our first graduating class slated for June, 2012.  We have outgrown our two rented parochial schools for our children and hope to move into a facility in Conshohocken on River Road called River Park 2 (link virtual tour).  There is much to be done and our capital campaign will determine if our dreams will come true. We are clearly excited for our children and their families as we would have room to grow our school to 250 children.  Utilizing our Lab School model, the goal is to establish an AIM Institute for Learning and Research where our children will thrive and grow and where university interns, student teachers and teacher residents can learn side-by-side with our talented teachers.  We plan to expand our teacher training programs.  Last year AIM provided 500 teachers with courses in reading, writing, math and language development.

We were so moved by the Producing Pearls program that we would welcome the opportunity to reach out to your community to build linkages with Bryn Athyn College and your students.  For every child who cannot read, it diminishes our society.   Every day in our country, 7000 students drop out of school.  We can make a difference if we work together to share our talents and our passion.

If you would like to reach out to us to begin a dialogue about how we can work together or bring these best practices to educators and parents in your area, please let us know.  Our plans for the future include putting more and more of our trainings on-line including developing research-based videos for parents.  You can contact us at our email addresses: Pat Roberts (proberts@aimpa.org) and Nancy Blair (nblair@aimpa.org).  Our website at www.aimpa.org has information about our school, tutoring center, and our training center.  We look forward to sharing our news from time to time on your facebook page as we continue our journey to improving education for all children, our radiant pearls.

Thanks for the great message today.  I really enjoyed the mixed service, the guests, and the message.  I chuckled when you said we all looked silly out there…we did, but I know that you can’t see us either, smile.  I could certainly relate to the hole or holes.  I have spent my entire life trying to fill a hole.  Fortunately the hole or holes have gotten way, way, way smaller and fewer and I continue to find better ways to fill them but there seems to be one, that in the one you spoke of, that one so deep, right to the heart and soul of our very essence and being.  I loved the hole piece as a porthole, a conduit, for our true selves to get out – now there’s a positive spin!  hmmm.…

As someone in recovery, I finally understand what peole in recovery in 12 step rooms mean when they say they are a “grateful recovering _________”.  I get that.  It is my addictions and destructive/compulsive behaviors that brought me back to the Lord.  So I am grateful.  Ii is truly my addictions and compulsions that have brought God into my heart and life.  I loved how the hole turned into “Okay”.  It is okay.  With God, it will be okay.  It has been since early summer, in a meditation …, my grandparents, my Angels, came to me as I reached out to them in my relapse and they told me “Everything is going to be okay.”  It was a spiritual awakening for me.  A calmness came over me.  I was able to surrender at a deeper level after that.

I have abstained from binging and purging since then, so by the grace of God it has been just over 4 months now, free from the bondage of those insane eating behaviors.  My recovery is far from perfect, but now, when I slip or mess up, I tell myself and my sponsor and God, well, that’s not okay, but that’s okay. And when I’m in a bad place and  I’m not okay,  that’s okay….

So I loved that message.

In all my 19 years of teaching, I am always amazed at the things I learn from my children and their families.  It has been quite a journey that I believe has made me stronger in every aspect of my life.  Through my interactions with my students, I have learned to be a little more patient, a little more open-minded and a little more flexible. Even though I have my ways of doing things, there ARE other ways to accomplish a task…I’ve been a little more humbled.  I’ve learned to be a little less judgmental and to be more accepting.  I’ve also learned how to love a little more, to laugh a little more and even to cry more openly…I’ve learned to live in the moment.

Do I get frustrated?  Absolutely!  There are days when I want to scream and pull my hair out…my patience has been tested to the limit.  I then ask myself, “Why am I doing this?  I can’t do this anymore!”  No sooner do those words leave my lips when something AMAZING happens…a non-verbal child begins making tons of great sounds while playing…a little girl who is unaware of most things in her environment makes eye contact with you from across the room, walks to you and reaches up for a hug.  It’s moments like these that touch my heart forever.

Not everyday will be easy.  One of the toughest things and perhaps something that holds us back is our expectations…we all have expectations for ourselves, our children and of people and events in our lives.  Our expectations may not always be met and that is such a difficult thing to deal with…the disappointment, the let down, the anger and the frustration.  But if we continue to live our lives in the disappointment, sadness, anger and frustration of that moment, we are missing out on all the little, amazing moments that occur around us each day…we are missing out on life, missing out on our children.

To live your life through the eyes of a child is to rediscover the world, to relive the wonder and awe all around us…it really is discovery.  What an awesome journey to take with you child!  The road may not always be easy but well worth the effort to be there…really be there with our children.

Just remember that we ALL have greatness.  We are NOT our flaws.  No matter our age, shape, size abilities or challenges, we have greatness.  So our job is not to wonder “what if” in terms of what you don’t have but rather to wonder “what if” in terms of what could be.

We gather here today to celebrate the life of Elsie Kerth Allen, “Gram.”  Imagine for a moment the world that Elsie saw.  She was born at a time when Civil War veterans populated the area.  She grew up during World War I and was well along life’s journey during World War II.    She saw the “invention” of television, interstate highways, cell phones, and calculators.

Over those years certain things remained very important to her.  Graduating in 1932 from Ursinus College with a degree in education, teaching children obviously was a great joy to her, a means of authentic service.  Her true joy though centered on her family.

“Gram” deeply loved her husband Nels, son Tom, grandchildren and great children many of whom join us here today.  That love could be somewhat mischievous at times. Recently Elsie’s granddaughter applied for a position to work at Harrah’s and they called Elsie’s home.   Elsie later relayed to her granddaughter that they called her because she applied for the job too.

She loved smaller things as well. The dogs.  Chocolate.  Gin with a splash of water.  Volunteering at the library.  Plays and orchestra.  Watching the fireworks display from the backyard.

And, as is true with all human beings. Elsie was not without a more curmudgeonly side.   She was a not fan of change, bugs, winter, doors left open, interruption while watching Philly teams, or anything that blocked her view.  She also found the inevitable slowing down with age and the resulting limits on mobility to be hard.

And as is often true with those with streaks of being difficult, underneath lies a deep faith.  We began the service reading from her two favorite Psalms.  One spoke of the Lord as a Shepherd, the other the Lord as a keeper.  That deep channel of faith no doubt saw her through an incredibly long and productive life.

Imagine.  Imagine what Elsie is waking to right now.  No longer limited by a body slowed and constrained by age, she is returning to youth.  Maybe even returning to family and friends who passed before her.  Death is nothing more than a transition – from this life to the next.

In that life God – her Shepherd and Keeper – will seek to bless the truest of intentions Elsie knew in this life.  He will breathe life into her core desire to help, to serve, to protect, to love.  Those parts of Elsie’s life will know new life as Jesus gently centers her into the core of her true self, her true being.

And she will be with you, her beloved family.  Death is really a very thin place – the line between the world and heaven – a very thin place.  Our job is to welcome the best parts of her spirit into our lives – that thought will bring her presence.  God gave her to you because there were unique lessons He believed she could share.  He gave you to her for the exact same reason.  What are those valuable lessons for you?  Give life to them.   Give intention to them.

In that way maybe we come to understand that an incredible truth – one that can, thankfully, shatter the very illusions we toil under.  Death.  The truth is we are beyond death on this journey.   One of Elsie’s favorite quotes spoke to this using the words of the poet Robert Frost.  “In three words I can sum up everything I’ve learned about life: It goes on.”

So let our lives go on.  Let the sadness of this day remind us of the dearness with which we hold one another.  Let the joy of her memory remind us of what life can be.

God’s love seeks our awakening.  True, since this awakening implies a kind of death to our exterior self, we will dread His coming in proportion as we are identified with this exterior self and attached to it.  But when we understand the dialectic of life and death we will learn to take the risks implied by faith, to make the choices that deliver us from our routine self and open to us the door of a new being, a new reality.  Thomas Merton